세바시 513회 상상하지 말라. 그리고 관찰하라 @송길영 다음소프트 부사장

부모님과, 자녀와, 배우자와, 친구와 계속해서 엇갈리는 이유가 무엇일까요? 우리는 선의를 가지고 상대를 대하지만 그 결과가 항상 좋지만은 않고 예상은 번번이 빗나갑니다. 이런 상황에서 벗어나기 위한 방법은, 내가 상대를 ‘알고 있다’는 생각을 의심하는 것에서 시작합니다. 우리는 계속 변화하고 있고, 서로에 대한 앎은 그에 맞추어 갱신되어야 합니다.  “상상하지 말라. 그리고 관찰하라.” 엇갈림에서 벗어날 수 있는 관찰의 방법에 대하여 이야기해보자 합니다.

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SEBASI No. 513 - Don't imagine, Observe @Song Kil-young (Daum Soft - Vice president)

What's the reason that we don't get along with parents, children, spouse, and friends all the time? We treat others with good intention but the result is not always good and our expectation often goes against it. To ease this situation start with the question "how do we know somebody?" We are constantly changing, thus our understanding of each other should be adjusted accordingly. "Don't imagine, but observe" I would like to talk about how we can observe so that we don't miss each other.